When a Neighbour Leaves

December 28, 2012

It’s always depressing to lose somebody who is relatively close to you. It doesn’t matter if he’s close emotionally or is just a neighbour – when this person is in your life and you’re comfortable with them, then you feel like something is missing when they leave.

This is the thing I’m going through right now. My neighbour, Brandon, is leaving. He’s changing jobs and his new one is too far away from here to travel so is moving closer in. He doesn’t want to cross the whole city to get to work and I get that. But I really feel that something is changing for the worse and I don’t like it. Brandon and I weren’t very close but he was a good neighbour – quiet, shy and I knew that he was a good guy. I have never had any problems with him and there was nothing wrong with him at all, as far as I could tell. I pride myself as being a good judge of character so I think I wasn’t wrong about him.

The problem with neighbours moving and what is so depressing in this situation is actually the fact that some stranger is going to live next door. He or she might be nice but might not be. It’s a mystery until they move in. You’re comfortable with your current neighbour so you don’t like this change one bit. This is maybe caused by our fear of the unknown but in any case I don’t like the idea of some stranger living right next to me. It makes me uneasy.

Anyway – this cannot be avoided. The best I can hope for is the fact that the new neighbour will be at least as good as Brand. He was keeping to himself. He was an introvert and wasn’t very communicative, even though not all introverts are like that. He didn’t even come and me ask me to help him pack, even though out of all the neighbours I was the only one talked to, I mean saying something more than the occasional “hello”.

He called a cleaning company to deal with the cleaning part. The contract was very strict about the conditions and I guess he didn’t want to take any chances. He used Aceclean, as far as I could see. I took a look at their website. Brand was very strict so if he chose them, there had to be a solid reason for it. It wasn’t like him to take any chances or unnecessary risks. In any case, like I said, I hope the neighbour is at least as good as Brandon, or maybe even better. One can hope, right? Although I am a bit sceptical, to tell you the truth.

 

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The Morning After

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William Harker’s Habits

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‘Drugs will destroy your life, boy.’ That’s what the old history teacher, Mr Taylor had told William Harker when he caught him smoking weed in the backyard of the school. ‘Stop it now, while you’re still young. You have a good head on your shoulders, boy. Don’t let it go to waste.’ But he didn’t listen. ‘What does that old man know?’ That’s what he thought. ‘Weed ain’t even addictive.’ The captain of the rugby team didn’t like anybody telling him what to do or no...


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The Magic Of Cleaning My Home - It Changed My Life

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Some Tricks For Good Mood

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Smile at the sun outside. Well, we all know that London is not exactly the sunniest place on the planet, but whatever – you can still imagine it’s there, right? So, the only thing that is expected of you is to smile back at the sun. This is the easiest way to wake up and start your day with some positive ene...


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When Did We Start Living By Habit?

July 3, 2012


Since the elementary school we are taught that people are the perfect animals. First we think, calculate things, then rethink, and lastly we do. We invent things, destroy them, and then build something again, but no matter how hard we try, we can’t really fly like the birds. Yes, the birds, those simple animals. We won’t ever let our dreams dictate anything at all, because we try to be realists. I because of the fact we are such, we watch as our lives are slowly fading away.

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Let's Be Positive About Life

June 29, 2012


In a certain part of their life every one of us has heard the expression “cheer up”. But there are very few people who can actually be positive no matter what. Psychologists, on the other hand, strongly recommend facing our life with a smile and being more positive in order to live better. At first sight it doesn’t look so easy, but the good news is that everybody can do it. It only takes some efforts.

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Big Expectations. Are They?

June 27, 2012


Last week I told you about the non-cleaned ballet studio I practice in. Well, this week this problem is not in the agenda anymore. But even that this week the place is being cleaned, the things are getting even more serious.

After last week I spoke with our director and told him that the managers of the cleaning company we work in the ballet studio haven’t sent anyone to wash the floor and sanitize the building, he obviously took some measures and vitiated the contract with them. From this ...

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Summer Events In Kensington Palace – Volume 1

June 14, 2012


Except for the fact that this summer London will be one of the most crowded towns worldwide, because of the 2012 Summer Olympics, most of you probably don’t know that many of the London area offer some event sessions of leisure and learning activities. For example, I learned that this year there are some interesting events in the Kensington Palace in South Kensington and I went there to book myself to some of them.

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